An Open Letter to Ricky Reyes, Renee Salud—and yes, even you, Toni Gonzaga:

I watched your recent interview. And to be honest, I wasn’t angry—I was heartbroken.

This could’ve been an empowering conversation—a Pride Month moment that uplifted, enlightened, and reflected how far we’ve come as a community. But instead, what I witnessed was an echo chamber of internalized homophobia, outdated mindsets, and the romanticization of suffering disguised as "wisdom." 

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Let’s talk about it.

Ricky Reyes, you shared:

> “Naranasan kong ibitin ng patiwarik, ikulong sa hawla ng manok, apuyan sa ilalim. Pero para sa’kin, tough love ‘yun.”

Tough love? No. That was abuse. What happened to you was violence, and the fact that you still call it "necessary" doesn’t make it right—it just shows how deeply it scarred you. And now, by sharing that mindset with a smile, you’re passing that trauma onto the next generation, wrapped in a bow of supposed strength.

Then there’s this gem:

> “Pag bakla kang magmahal, todo ka. Pag kumita ka ng ₱1,000, ibigay mo ang ₱800 sa lalaki, itabi mo yung ₱200 para sa pamilya mo. Pero pag nagka-girlfriend siya, tanggapin mo na wala ka na.”

You’re seriously suggesting that we budget for heartbreak? That we invest our hard-earned love and money into men who treat us like stepping stones? You're not teaching us how to love—you’re teaching us how to settle. You’re grooming younger bakla to expect crumbs and call them a feast.

And this:

> “Pag gusto mo ng long-term na lalaki, dapat hindi ka modernong babae. Dapat submissive ka, tahimik, tanggap lang nang tanggap.”

So let me get this straight: To be loved, we must lose our voice? To keep a partner, we must sacrifice our rights?

This isn’t love. This is compliance masquerading as devotion. And honestly, even cis women should be offended by how you define womanhood—as something quiet, convenient, and always agreeable. That’s not femininity. That’s erasure.

Let’s be real: “Just take it into your heart” is not advice—it’s emotional self-harm.

And then you said this:

> “Kahit umakyat ka ng kisame at pagbagsak mo, naka-shoot ka na, go ahead.”

No context. No accountability. No care for the young queer kids listening to you. Just go. Just do. Just risk it.

That’s not brave. That’s reckless.

Renee Salud, you said:

> “Learning is continuous in beauty and fashion. We must evolve.”

Then where is the evolution?

You can’t claim to be a trailblazer while dragging your community backwards. You speak of style and trends evolving—but what about your values? What about your understanding of dignity, rights, and safe spaces? You call for progress in fabric and flair, but when it comes to identity and equality, you preach endurance instead of liberation.

Growth is not just about outward appearance. It’s about mindset. It’s about listening. And honestly? That part seems to have stayed stuck in a time capsule.

And when Ricky said:

> “Being tolerated is better than being accepted.”

Let me stop you right there.

Tolerated? That means being barely endured. That means taking up space with a silent apology.

We don’t want to be tolerated. We want to be seen. Heard. Respected.

You don’t build a proud generation by telling them to be thankful for table scraps.

And then there’s you, Toni Gonzaga.

It’s Pride Month. A time to highlight voices that are bold, authentic, and fighting for visibility and protection. But you chose to amplify two figures who openly oppose the SOGIE Bill—who promote silence over truth, and suffering over empowerment.

Ricky even boasted:

> “Ako ang nagpatigil ng SOGIE Bill.”

As if it were something to be proud of. As if stopping a bill meant to protect people from harassment, discrimination, and systemic violence was an achievement. Why? Because you’d rather be tolerated than protected?

And when asked about same-sex marriage:

> “Wag na ‘yang pakialaman. Gawa ‘yan ng Diyos.”

We’re not asking your churches to officiate our weddings. We’re asking the state to acknowledge our partnerships as equal. To allow us to share health insurance. Visit loved ones in hospitals. Raise children. Build lives.

That’s not an attack on faith. That’s a call for civil rights.

Instead of clarifying this, you all leaned into the tired narrative that LGBTQIA+ people should expect less, give more, and keep quiet. That love is something we earn by making ourselves smaller. That survival is all we deserve.

So here’s my truth:

Ricky. Renee. Toni.

You are public figures. Your words shape conversations and influence minds. And right now, you’re using your platforms to recycle trauma and dress it up as tradition. That’s not just irresponsible—it’s dangerous.

Because telling queer youth to simply endure what you endured is not guidance. It’s a warning dressed as wisdom.

You don’t speak for us.

We are not your “baklang hamburger.”

We are not martyrs-in-training.

We are not half-humans living in someone else’s world.

We are whole.

We are worthy.

And we are done shrinking ourselves to fit your version of respectability.

Pride is not nostalgia.

It’s not performance.

It’s not silence.

It’s protest. It’s evolution. It’s truth in all its loud, messy, glittering glory.

So if you truly believe in legacy, start a new one: Empower. Educate. Evolve.

If not, respectfully—step aside.

🏳️‍🌈

#NotYourBaklangHamburger #SOGIEEqualityNow #EvolveOrStepAside #RespectIsNotOptional #PrideWithPurpose

Meanwhile...

I couldn’t help but feel deeply moved and empowered by what Vice Ganda said during Pride. In a time when some of our own—like Ricky Reyes and Renee Salud—choose to invalidate the identities and truths of transgender individuals, Vice stood on that stage and reminded everyone that Pride is not just about rainbow flags and parades. It’s about fighting back against outdated mindsets, even when they come from within our own community. Hearing her speak with such fire and truth, I felt seen. I felt like she spoke for all of us who have been silenced, corrected, or dismissed just for living authentically.

It’s painful when people we once looked up to—icons, even—turn their backs on the very freedom they used to represent. But Vice reminded me that progress doesn’t wait for anyone’s approval. It’s happening now. And it’s led by voices who are unapologetically loud, loving, and rooted in truth. This wasn’t just a clapback—it was a call to action, to love louder, to educate harder, and to never shrink ourselves just to fit into someone else’s comfort zone.

📦 REAL OR FAKE? Testing Bracelets, Memory Cards & More from Lazada Philippines!

 Online shopping is always a gamble—sometimes you score a hidden gem, and sometimes... well, let’s just say you learn your lesson. 😅 In this vlog, I’m unboxing a handful of items I ordered from @LazadaPhilippines back in December 2019, and we’re putting them all to the test to see if they’re real or fake!

📦 The deliveries didn’t arrive all at once, so I filmed multiple clips as they came in and combined them into one vlog. From shiny bracelets that looked expensive online to memory cards that claim to store everything, this video is all about testing whether these Lazada finds live up to the hype—or fall flat.

💬 What’s in the vlog?

• Jewelry that might turn your skin green 😬
• Memory cards with questionable storage space
• Honest first impressions and quick quality checks
• The thrill (and occasional regret) of Lazada hauls

🎥 Whether you’re a fellow online shopper or just enjoy unboxings and reviews, you’ll definitely relate to this rollercoaster of a haul. Watch until the end and tell me in the comments: Have you ever been scammed online—or pleasantly surprised?

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🎥 What’s Inside the “YouTube Pop-Up Space Manila?” | A Creator’s Dream Come True 🌟

Have you ever wondered what it's like to step inside a YouTube dreamland? I finally got the chance to visit the YouTube Pop-Up Space Manila, and I’m beyond thrilled to share this exclusive behind-the-scenes experience with you! 

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For the first time ever, YouTube brought its global Pop-Up Space program to the Philippines, and it’s more than just a venue—it’s a vibrant hub created for us, the content creators. Whether you're a vlogger, filmmaker, podcaster, or just starting out, this space was designed to inspire and elevate Filipino creators of all levels.

✨ Here’s What You’ll See Inside:

• ✅ Professional filming gear – Cameras, lights, and audio tools you only dreamed of having in your own studio.
• ✅ Stylized sets – Instagram-worthy and ready-to-shoot spaces tailored for different kinds of content.
• ✅ Edit bays & workshop areas – Need a quiet place to polish your video or attend a masterclass? They’ve got you covered.
• ✅ Creator lounge & networking zones – Chill with fellow creators, share stories, and spark future collabs.

But what stood out most wasn’t just the tech or the glam sets—it was the sense of community. The space made it clear: YouTube believes in the talent of Filipinos and is investing in our growth. 💪🇵🇭

From educational workshops to hands-on tutorials, the Pop-Up Space empowered us to create smarter, faster, and better. It’s more than just a venue—it’s a celebration of Filipino creativity.

If you’re a Pinoy creator or aspiring to be one, this initiative proves that the future of content is bright and inclusive. And who knows? The next YouTube Space might just be permanent in Manila! 🙌

🌿😭 GOODBYE PLANTITO LIFESTYLE! | Saying Farewell to My Indoor Jungle 🌱💔

Today’s blog hits differently. It’s emotional, reflective, and bittersweet—as I officially bid goodbye to my beloved Plantito lifestyle, at least for now. For the past few years, especially during lockdown, tending to my indoor jungle brought me peace, purpose, and joy. But now, the time has come to part ways with that chapter of my life. 

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🌱 It All Started With Lockdown…

Back when the world paused and we were all forced to stay home, I found comfort in green. Like many of you, I turned to plants—watching them grow became a symbol of hope during uncertain times. I transformed my 13sqm condo unit into a mini jungle, collecting ornamental greens left and right. From snake plants to pothos, every leaf had a place.

But of course, plantdemic happened. Indoor plants became a trend and, along with the hype, came sky-high prices. I spent a lot—too much, honestly—on pots, ceramic vases, rare cuttings, and trendy foliage. And I’m not going to lie, it was addictive.

🐶 Then Came Escobar...

Life changed again when I welcomed Escobar, my sweet American Bully and emotional support dog. As I shifted focus to pet parenting, the plants slowly became an afterthought. Taking care of both a jungle and a gentle giant in such a small space? Not easy.

🪴 The Harsh Truth About Condo Planting

Let’s be real—plants need air, sunlight, and breathing space. My tiny unit wasn’t ideal. The struggle to keep my green babies alive became exhausting. Some plants dried out, some got infested, and others just didn’t survive. It hurt seeing them wither, knowing I couldn’t give them the environment they deserved.

💔 The Letting Go

So in this vlog, I show you how I finally let go.

Yes, I’m de-planting my life.

I’ve started disposing of my ceramic vases and decorative pots—some of which I’m selling to recover even a small return on investment. Others I’ll give away. It’s not about the money, though. It’s about closure and making peace with the decision.

Because despite everything, I don’t regret a thing.

Those plantito days gave me peace during the darkest moments of the pandemic. They taught me patience, nurturance, and the beauty of slow living. And for that, I’m grateful.

🛑 This Is Not the End

I may be saying goodbye for now, but not forever. Who knows? One day, I might start again with low-maintenance or small-space-friendly greens. Maybe even herbs I can use for cooking! 🌿

If you're a fellow #Plantito or #Plantita, have you ever felt the need to pause or reset? I’d love to hear your thoughts. Let’s talk in the comments.

✨RAMEN, HULA, AND BRITNEY FANS IN MALATE: A Random Night Turned Mystical✨

 What was supposed to be just a chill night out with friends turned into something surprisingly spiritual-ish. My Britney Army friends and I decided to head to Malate for some ramen cravings, and of course, we ended up at the ever-reliable Erra’s Ramen House—cheap, tasty, and perfect for late-night catch-ups. 🍜💬

But here’s where the night got... interesting. As we were slurping our bowls, a random palm reader—or should I say aura reader—approached us and offered to read our fortunes. One by one, habang may sabaw pa sa bibig, we had our palms read.

At first, it was just funny. We were giggling, making jokes, and poking fun at each other’s "fate." But then, some of the things he said started hitting a little too close to home. 😳 Personal stuff. Past events. And yes, even some truths that we didn’t expect him to pick up on. Coincidence? Intuition? Hula-hula magic?

When we got back to my condo, we couldn't stop talking about it. Half of us were spooked, half were amused. Was it legit? Or was it just a clever hustle? Either way, it made our ramen night unforgettable.

Lesson of the night: You can’t always tell where a good bowl of ramen (and some Britney vibes) will lead you. 🔮💅

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Would we do it again? Maybe. But next time, we’re paying closer attention to who’s reading our aura… and our reactions. 😅

🌱 Beginner-Friendly Bonsai: How to Care for Cuphea Hyssopifolia (Mexican Heather) Indoors

Welcome back, plant lovers! In today’s episode of my #Plantito journey, I’m excited to introduce you to my newest indoor bonsai baby—the Cuphea Hyssopifolia, more commonly known as Mexican Heather. This beauty came all the way from Bicol, and it’s already making my tiny home garden feel extra magical. ✨

If you're a beginner, or even a seasoned #Plantita/#Plantito, this plant is the perfect bonsai starter. With its dainty purple (sometimes lavender or white) flowers and compact evergreen foliage, it fits beautifully into micro-living spaces, condo balconies, or sunny windowsills.

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🌞 Sunlight 

Needs Cuphea Hyssopifolia thrives in bright, indirect light but can also handle a few hours of direct morning sun. Avoid placing it under intense afternoon rays as it may scorch the delicate leaves.

💧 Watering Tips

This plant loves consistent moisture, but don’t overdo it! Water only when the top inch of the soil feels dry. Pro tip: use a spray bottle for light misting if your space is dry or air-conditioned.

🌿 Soil & Potting Mix

Use well-draining soil—a mix of loam, sand, and compost works great. A bonsai pot with drainage holes is ideal to prevent root rot. Re-potting every 1–2 years will help refresh the soil and promote healthy growth.

✂️ Maintenance

Prune lightly to maintain its shape and encourage more blooms. Remove any dry or yellowing leaves, and always sterilize your tools before trimming.

✨ BONUS: My Personal Tips from Experience

• Place a tray of water nearby to maintain humidity, especially in air-conditioned rooms.
• Talk to your plant! (I swear, mine responds better after a little morning pep talk. 😂)
• Rotate the pot every few days so the plant grows evenly toward the light.

Cuphea Hyssopifolia, also known as false heather, elfin herb, or Hawaiian heather, is not just beautiful—it's also easy to care for, making it a wonderful companion for your indoor jungle or even as a gift idea for fellow plant parents.

☕ The Hangover After the Party in White Beach, Puerto Galera | My Struggle & Survival Tips

After a wild night of partying under the stars in White Beach, Puerto Galera, I woke up to the not-so-glamorous side of beach life: a massive hangover. 😵‍💫 With a pounding headache and zero motivation, I dragged myself out of bed into a gloomy, rainy morning—yup, Signal No. 2 typhoon weather was in full swing. 

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At around 10:23 AM, I stumbled into Cathy’s Bar and Restaurant by the beachfront, hoping a good meal could rescue me. I ordered a strong cup of coffee, a hot bowl of Chicken Tinola, and two cups of rice (plus a banana for good measure) — all for ₱330. The beach was eerily quiet, the waves louder than ever, and the atmosphere calm despite the storm. 🌧️

Back in my room, I tried to sleep off the misery… but by 11:30 AM, I gave up. So I slipped on my sandals and wandered along the shoreline. The beach, usually buzzing with tourists, was almost empty—just a few brave souls strolling like me. With no sun and light rain falling, the scene was oddly peaceful. My hangover might have lingered, but that walk? Totally therapeutic. 🌊

If you ever find yourself nursing a hangover in paradise, remember: warm soup, strong coffee, and a quiet walk by the sea can do wonders—even in a storm.

The Truth No One Tells You About Dying

This might be one of the hardest things I’ve ever written. But it needs to be said.

When you die, your body won’t matter. Not to you. Not anymore.

Others will handle it. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I’ve been part of that process.

They’ll carry you out of the place you once called home.

They’ll undress you.

Wash you.

Wrap you in clothes you didn’t choose.

Apply makeup to make death look less like what it really is.

People will show up.

Some will cancel meetings, take time off work, drive long distances—just to stand near your absence.

They’ll say things that sound kind. They’ll mean some of them.

And then the quiet sorting begins.

The things you once guarded closely—your keys, your favorite jacket, your books, the things you never let anyone borrow—they’ll be packed up.

Donated.

Sold.

Thrown away.

Your job? Replaced.

Maybe by someone better. Maybe not.

Either way, the emails will keep coming. Deadlines won’t mourn you.

Your home will change hands.

Your name will come up in conversations—at first with pain, then curiosity, then not at all.

People will judge you. Argue about what you did or didn’t do. Some will misremember. Others will forget you entirely.

Even your pets—the ones who waited at the door every day—will eventually follow someone else around.

Photos of you will survive for a while. On walls, then shelves, then in a box nobody opens.

And slowly, without anyone noticing the exact moment, you’ll become a memory. Then a shadow.

Then nothing at all.

Life moves on. It has to.

Someone new will sit in your chair.

Sleep in your bed.

Use your dishes.

Laugh in your house.

Grief will stay for a while. Maybe a year. Maybe longer. But even that will fade.

And your story—the one you thought was everything—will quietly close its last chapter.

Here, at least.

And all the things you thought made you... you—

Your career.

Your bank balance.

Your car.

Your titles.

Your ambitions.

Your regrets.

Even your name—

They’ll all lose their weight.

What’s left? Maybe just the echo of how you made others feel.

And maybe not even that.

So while you're here...

Maybe pause for a second.

Not everything needs to be earned, proved, owned, or won.

Because eventually, all of it—all of it—disappears.

And the silence that follows will be louder than you ever imagined.

Laban Para sa Valentines Date (Samyang Challenge & Pop the Balloon Challenge )

Tapos na ang Valentines pero hahabol tayo malay mo naman. Push natin tong game nato para manalo ng LALAKI este KaDATE para sa Valentines. Hope you enjoy. 

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🎤 THIS WAS THE OLD Rapture Café Bar – Before Drag Queens & Comedy Pageants Took Over

Let’s take a nostalgic trip down memory lane and revisit the original vibe of Rapture Café Bar—back when Pinoy comedy reigned supreme and drag shows were still a twinkle in Manila’s nightlife scene.

Before the spotlight shifted to pageantry, lip-sync battles, and fabulous wigs, Rapture Café Bar was home to bold, unapologetically funny Filipino stand-up comedians. These performers weren’t just there to tell jokes—they brought the room to life with raw, unscripted humor and relatable real talk that left the audience in tears from laughing too hard.

💸 And yes, back then, tipping had a very different meaning. The way these comedians said “thank you” to those who tipped them was its own form of entertainment—full of improv, charm, and cheeky punchlines that made every peso worth it.

This was an era when comedy bars were the soul of nightlife, offering a space where strangers became barkada, and the stress of daily life melted away with every roast, punchline, and hugot joke. No filter, no script—just pure Pinoy wit and warmth.

👉 Curious how it all looked back then?

Watch the full vlog and see what the scene was like before drag queens and competitions took center stage. Relive those golden nights of laughter, connection, and classic comedy bar culture.

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💡 TIP: Low-Cost Video Light for New Vloggers and YouTubers in the Philippines

Are you a new vlogger or aspiring YouTuber trying to step up your video quality without spending too much? You're not alone! When I started my own content creation journey, I used to rely on natural light or—let's be honest—my phone’s built-in flash. 😅 It worked okay at first, but I knew I had to improve my lighting setup to really make my content pop.

After doing a bit of research and testing different options, I finally found a budget-friendly video light that works surprisingly well, especially for beginners in the Philippines. Whether you're filming sit-down vlogs, unboxings, makeup tutorials, or even product reviews, proper lighting makes all the difference—and you don’t need to shell out thousands of pesos to get it right.

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🔦 Why Lighting Matters

Good lighting:

• Makes your videos look more professional
• Helps highlight your facial expressions and products
• Reduces grain/noise in low-light shots
• Keeps your viewers more engaged

✅ My Recommendation: Affordable Video Light for Beginners

I personally picked up a USB-powered LED panel light from an online marketplace like Lazada or Shopee for under ₱500. Here’s why it works:

• Adjustable brightness and color temperature
• Compact and portable, perfect for micro-living setups
• Can be mounted on tripods, ring light stands, or even clipped onto a desk
• Great for indoor filming, even during nighttime or cloudy days

If you’re on a tight budget, you can also repurpose clip-on desk lamps with daylight bulbs as a DIY alternative!

💡 Pro Tip: Maximize What You Have

If you can’t invest in multiple lights just yet:

• Use reflective surfaces (like white foam boards or walls) to bounce light
• Position your light source in front of you (not behind) to avoid harsh shadows
• Film during daytime and use natural light by a window whenever possible

Starting your vlogging journey doesn’t have to cost a lot. With just a small investment in lighting, you can instantly elevate your video quality and make your content stand out. Remember, you don’t need the most expensive gear to be a great creator—you just need the right tools, smart tips, and a lot of passion.

✨ If this helped you, check out my vlog where I demonstrate how I use my new lighting setup at home—and don’t forget to like, comment your setup tips, and subscribe for more content creation hacks!

⚱️ STYLISH BUT AFFORDABLE! Where to Buy Budget-Friendly Display Pots & Vases | Japan Home Center Haul

If you’re a proud #PlantTito (or Plantita!) looking to add more personality to your plant collection without burning a hole in your wallet, then this is the blog post you’ve been waiting for. In this episode of my #PlanTitoVlog, I took a quick trip to Japan Home Center—one of my favorite go-to stores for affordable home essentials—and I was thrilled to discover a new batch of budget-friendly display pots and vases that are both functional and stylish!

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🌿 Why Japan Home Center? 

Japan Home Center has long been known for its practical, minimalist, and surprisingly chic home finds. From cleaning tools to storage hacks, the store is a goldmine for anyone living in micro spaces like condos, tiny apartments, or urban homes here in the Philippines. But what caught my eye on this trip was their growing selection of decorative pots and vases that are perfect for indoor plant lovers and DIY home decorators.

🛍️ My Top Budget-Friendly Finds

Here’s a peek at my top picks from this haul:

1. Ceramic Mini Vases (₱88–₱188)

Perfect for coffee tables, shelves, or window sills—these muted-tone ceramic vases add a soft touch to any corner of your home. I paired mine with dried eucalyptus stems for a clean, Scandinavian vibe.

2. Textured Clay Pots (₱108–₱198)

Great for succulents or snake plants, these clay pots come in matte finishes and geometric textures that look far more expensive than they are. Perfect for minimalist and boho-themed homes.

3. Plastic Pots with Built-in Saucers (₱48–₱98)

Don’t underestimate plastic! These lightweight options are ideal for hanging plants or balcony gardening. They’re also easier to clean and maintain—especially for beginners.

4. Decorative Glass Vases (₱128–₱228)

I couldn’t leave without picking up a few clear glass vases, which I use for propagation. They're great for showcasing plant roots or using as centerpieces for cut flowers.

💡 Decorating Tips for Small Spaces

Living in a small space doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice style. 

Here are a few PlanTito-approved tips:

• Mix heights and textures: Combine ceramic, glass, and clay to add dimension.
• Use vertical space: Hanging pots or wall-mounted shelves can help maximize limited floor area.
• Keep it coordinated: Pick a neutral or earthy color palette for a cohesive look.
• Add personality: Customize with pebbles, wood trays, or macrame pot holders

📍Where to Shop

Most Japan Home Center branches carry these display pots and vases, but inventory varies—so make sure to check out different branches or visit their pop-up stalls in major malls. Prices range from ₱48 to ₱228, making it one of the most affordable places for home décor and indoor gardening needs.

👋 REUNITED AFTER 10 YEARS: Baler, Aurora Travel Vlog (MASAYA TO!)

Because nothing beats a reunion filled with laughter, beach vibes, and unforgettable memories!

After 10 long years, I finally reunited with my college friends and co-writers from The Pillar Publication — and what better way to celebrate than with a barkadahan getaway to the beautiful coastal town of Baler, Aurora! 🌊🌴

This trip was more than just a vacation. It was a walk down memory lane, filled with belly laughs, throwback stories, and the joy of reconnecting. But of course, we didn’t just catch up — we explored the best that Baler has to offer!

From chilling at Sabang Beach, indulging in delicious local eats, to hunting for the best pasalubong and finding the coolest hangout spots, this trip had everything: heart, humor, and a whole lot of fun. 😄

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💡 TRAVEL TIPS (Timestamp Guide from My Vlog):

• 🛏️ Where to Stay in Baler (Affordable) — 10:27
• 🏨 Where to Stay in Baler (High-Class) — 12:48
• 🍽️ Where to Eat in Baler (Buffet for only ₱200!) — 9:30
• 🍻 Where to Drink & Hang Out (Bar & Grill Recommendations) — 13:24
• 🚶‍♂️ How to Get to Sabang Beach from the Town Proper — 12:15
• 🎁 What Pasalubong to Buy in Baler? — 8:42

📹 Make sure to watch the vlog till the end — I promise it’s not just informative, but packed with hilarious moments you won't want to miss! Whether you’re planning a reunion or just craving a weekend escape, Baler is a destination that blends chill vibes, natural beauty, and cultural charm.

So come along and laugh with us, reminisce with us, and maybe plan your next adventure with your old friends too. Because sometimes, the best trips aren’t about the place — they’re about the people you share them with. ❤️

🐶 DOG SOCIALIZATION DAY with ESCOBAR | American Bully Meets New Friends at Greenfield!

Because every fur baby deserves a day out! 

 In this heartwarming vlog episode, join me and my gentle giant, Escobar the American Bully, as we head out to Greenfield District in Mandaluyong City for a day filled with fun, wagging tails, and new furry friendships! 🐾 

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As a fur-parent living the micro-living lifestyle in the city, I always look forward to moments like this — when Escobar gets to stretch his legs, meet other dogs, and enjoy being part of a vibrant pet-loving community.

In this episode, watch as Escobar:

• 🐕‍🦺 Makes new furry friends and mingles with different breeds
• 🐾 Learns social cues and playful interactions from other dogs
• 🌳 Basks in the fresh outdoor air while showing off his sweet and chill personality

Whether you're a fellow dog lover, a new fur-parent, or someone thinking of socializing your dog for the first time, this vlog is for you. Socialization is more than just play — it’s about building trust, confidence, and positive behavior in your beloved pet.

📍 Greenfield District proves to be an ideal spot — open, welcoming, and filled with responsible pet owners who are just as excited to let their fur-babies connect and explore.

So come with us and see Escobar in his element — sniffing, wagging, and enjoying the company of his kind.

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🦪 Sinabawang Tahong: My Go-To Comfort Soup When I’m Sick | Cooking Vlog

Welcome to another episode of my #CookingVlog! Today, I’m making Sinabawang Tahong (Oyster Soup) — a simple, soothing Filipino dish that’s perfect when you're feeling under the weather. 

I’ve been feeling a bit feverish lately, so I decided to cook this warm and healing soup that always brings me comfort. It’s light, flavorful, and packed with nutrients — just what the body needs to recover. 🥣💚

Whether you’re sick, stressed, or just craving a cozy meal, this recipe will surely hit the spot. Join me in the kitchen as I show you how to make this easy and delicious dish, step by step.

Let’s heal one bowl at a time. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more comforting Filipino recipes!

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🎉 Juan Umbrella Party 2016: A Night of Elements, Energy, and Epic Vibes! 🌎🔥💨💦

 What happens when you combine the forces of nature with music, dance, and wild performances? You get Juan Umbrella Party 2016 — a one-of-a-kind celebration of the elements: Fire, Water, Air, and Earth — all fused into an electrifying night of art and sound!

I had the chance to experience it all with exclusive backstage access, and trust me, it was INSANE. From blazing fire dance numbers to mesmerizing water and aerial acts, every moment pulsed with raw energy and creativity. The lights, the beats, the crowd — everything was next level.

I danced through the night, captured behind-the-scenes action, and fully immersed myself in the unforgettable vibe of the festival.

🔥💃💦 Wanna see how it all went down?

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🧼 HOW I WASH MY DREADLOCKS | Real Talk Tips and Tricks for Clean & Healthy Locs! 🇵🇭

Welcome back to another #DreadlocksVlog, and today’s episode is all about one of your most requested topics — How I wash my dreadlocks! 

 Living in the Philippines, where it's hot, humid, and sometimes rainy all in the same day, caring for dreadlocks comes with unique challenges. That’s why I’m sharing my full wash day routine, my go-to products, and all the do’s and don’ts I’ve learned through my own loc journey. Whether you're starting your dreadlock journey or looking for ways to improve your maintenance routine, this blog post is for YOU!

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🧖‍♂️ My Actual Dreadlock Wash Day Routine

Let’s get real: clean dreadlocks = healthy dreadlocks. Here’s what my regular wash day looks like:

• Pre-Rinse – I start by rinsing my locs thoroughly with warm water. This helps loosen dirt, sweat, and product build-up.
• Shampoo – I use a residue-free, sulfate-free shampoo and focus on my scalp first. I gently massage the scalp with my fingertips — not nails!
• Loc Cleanse – After cleansing the scalp, I gently squeeze shampoo through the length of my dreadlocks, making sure it reaches deep within
• Rinse Well – This is super important! I rinse for at least 3-5 minutes to ensure no shampoo is left behind (residue can cause itch and odor).
• Squeeze & Air Dry – I towel dry my locs using a microfiber towel, then let them air dry under the sun or in front of an electric fan.

Pro Tip: Never tie your hair while it’s wet — it could lead to mildew and a not-so-fresh smell. 🤢

🧴 Recommended Products I Personally Use

These products are affordable, accessible in the Philippines, and effective for dreadlock care:

• Dr. Bronner’s Pure Castile Soap (diluted) – Natural, residue-free, and safe.
• Human Nature Clarifying Shampoo – Local, organic, and budget-friendly.
• Tea Tree Oil – Mixed with water for a natural scalp refresher.
• Apple Cider Vinegar Rinse – Great for occasional detox.

👉 Always do a patch test before using new products on your scalp!

❌ DOs and DON’Ts When Washing Your Locs

✅ DO:

Wash your dreadlocks every 7 to 10 days, depending on lifestyle and climate.

• Use shampoos that are sulfate-free, residue-free, and lightweight.
• Let them dry completely after washing.
• Be gentle — dreadlocks are delicate, especially when wet.

❌ DON’T:

• Don’t overwash — it strips natural oils.
• Don’t use creamy conditioners — they leave buildup.
• Don’t go to sleep with wet dreadlocks.
• Don’t scratch your scalp with sharp nails!

🌀 How Often Should You Wash Dreadlocks?

For Pinoys in the tropics, I recommend washing every 7–10 days, especially if:

• You commute daily.
• You sweat a lot.
• You’re exposed to smoke, dust, or city pollution.

If you’re in a cooler, indoor setting, you might be able to extend it to every 2 weeks, but remember: listen to your scalp and your locs.

🌴 Tips for Pinoys with Dreadlocks Living the Tropical Lifestyle

1. Wear a satin bonnet at night to protect your locs from friction and lint.
2. Use aloe vera gel for an itchy scalp or light moisturizing.
3. Spray with rose water + essential oils for daily freshness.
4. Dry under the sun when possible — it's a natural way to keep them odor-free!

Taking care of dreadlocks isn’t just about looking good — it’s also about feeling clean, confident, and empowered in your natural crown. Whether you're new to this or a long-time dreadhead, I hope this blog helps you take better care of your locs.

If you found this post helpful, LIKE, SHARE, and leave a COMMENT about your own dread routine. Let’s build a Pinoy dreadlock community that supports each other! 💚

Bored with Reading? That Doesn’t Make You Any Less Smart.

 Let’s talk about it — because not everyone who yawns at books is lazy or unintelligent.

Have you ever sat down with a book, tried to concentrate, and found yourself zoning out after just a few pages? Maybe you’ve even questioned yourself, thinking, “Why do I get bored so easily? Am I just not smart enough for this?”

Let me stop you right there — getting bored with reading does not mean you’re not smart.

There are many reasons why people lose interest in books, and none of them have anything to do with your intelligence.

For one, you might not be reading the right kind of book. Maybe the topic doesn’t spark your curiosity. Maybe the writing style is too slow, too complex, or just not your vibe. Not all books are for everyone, and forcing yourself to finish something you’re not enjoying can suck the fun out of reading entirely.

Another big reason? Mental fatigue and distractions. In our fast-paced, always-online world, it’s hard to switch off and settle into the slower rhythm of reading. If you’ve had a long day, or your brain is constantly bombarded with notifications, sitting still with a book can feel like a chore instead of a break.

Plus, if you’re used to content like TikTok, Instagram reels, or YouTube — where everything is fast, flashy, and instant — books can seem too slow to compete. That doesn’t mean your attention span is broken. It just means your brain is adapting to what it’s constantly exposed to.

And let’s not forget: not everyone relaxes or learns the same way. Some people unwind with books. Others find inspiration in podcasts, documentaries, conversations, or hands-on activities. That’s okay. Being smart isn’t about how much you read. It’s about how you think, how you solve problems, and how you grow from your experiences.

So if you’re struggling to enjoy reading, don’t beat yourself up.

Try different genres. Explore audiobooks. Watch thought-provoking content. Talk to people who inspire you.

There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to learning or relaxing.

Smart isn’t about being a bookworm.

Smart is about being curious — in your own way.

Money Over Merit? Klarisse De Guzman and Shuvee Etrata's Eviction from PBB is a Slap in the Face #PBBCelebrityCollabEdition

Boto ng Mamamayan ❎

Boto ng Mayayaman ✅

Just when I thought Pinoy Big Brother was getting interesting again, reality hit me harder than any twist Kuya could come up with. Klarisse De Guzman and Shuvee Etrata — two of the few housemates who were actually bringing substance, talent, and authenticity into the house — have been evicted. And honestly? It feels like a betrayal not just to them, but to the entire concept of the show.

They say PBB is about "being real," "building connections," and "being competitive." But after this eviction, it’s obvious: none of that matters when you're up against fat wallets and flashy fanbases. All those values they keep preaching inside the house? Thrown out the window the moment the votes were counted — not by merit, but by money.

Let’s be honest here. Klarisse has a voice that commands respect. Shuvee had wit, charm, and sincerity. They weren’t just floating around the house for screen time. They worked, they opened up, they showed growth. And yet, that wasn’t enough. Why? Because in this game, it seems talent and effort are no match for influence and wealth.

It’s incredibly frustrating. PBB once felt like a social experiment — now it feels like a spending competition. Whoever has the richest fans, or the strongest sponsors, or the most screen time with a love team… wins. And the rest? Pack your bags.

What’s even more disheartening is the likelihood that someone who’s done nothing but flirt, pose, or act cutesy might just end up winning this whole thing. No contributions to the group, no meaningful stories, no standout moments. But hey — they have a fanbase willing to throw money behind every text vote. That’s all that matters now, right?

This isn't about being bitter over a favorite being evicted. It’s about the death of what PBB used to stand for. When you remove people who are genuinely giving their best, and reward those who are merely popular or funded, what are you really promoting?

Sadly, it’s not “the voice of the people” anymore.

It’s “the wallet of the privileged.”

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Why Some Men Don’t Date VivaMax Artists (And Why That Needs to Change)

 In today’s entertainment landscape, VivaMax has emerged as a bold platform that gives fresh faces a chance to shine. But behind the glitz and daring roles lies a social reality that many rarely talk about—why some men hesitate to date VivaMax actresses. As someone who appreciates cinema and storytelling in all its forms, I felt compelled to explore this topic deeper.

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The Role vs. The Real Person

Let’s get one thing straight: an actress is not her character.

VivaMax artists often play roles that require them to be fearless, sensual, and provocative. These characters are part of a script, a story, a performance. But unfortunately, many people—especially potential partners—tend to blur the lines between fiction and reality.

Some men find it hard to separate the on-screen persona from the real woman behind it. The result? Judgment, assumptions, and ultimately—avoidance.

Jealousy and Insecurity

Dating someone in the public eye is already a challenge. Add sensual film roles into the mix, and insecurities may surface fast.

Some men admit they wouldn’t be able to handle seeing their girlfriend in intimate scenes, even if it's all just acting. This kind of thinking reveals a deeper issue: insecurity and control, rather than genuine concern or respect for boundaries.

The Heavy Weight of Cultural Conservatism

The Philippines remains a largely conservative society. In many households, "sexy" actresses are still unfairly labeled. That mindset affects relationships. A guy might like a VivaMax artist, but fears what his friends, family—or worse, his mom—might say.

So instead of standing up and saying, “She’s amazing and talented,” he ghosts the idea entirely.

The Double Standard Problem

Here’s where it gets frustrating.

Men who appear in erotic scenes or pose shirtless are often glorified. “Wow, ang lakas maka-oppa!” But when a woman does the same thing? She's branded as "easy" or "not girlfriend material."

It’s 2025. We should be past this kind of toxic double standard. Women should be allowed to take control of their careers and bodies without it being used against them in their personal lives.

Public Scrutiny and Pressure

Dating a VivaMax star also means stepping into the limelight. Not everyone is ready for that.

Whether it’s online bashers or nosy netizens, the fear of being criticized or turned into a trending topic can push a man away from dating someone in the public eye. But here’s a question worth asking: Is it the spotlight they’re afraid of, or the judgment they fear from society?

Some Women Just Don’t Have Time for BS

Let’s flip the lens: maybe it’s not that men don’t want to date VivaMax stars—maybe these women just aren’t settling.

Many VivaMax artists are career-driven, independent, and empowered. They’ve worked hard to break into the industry, and they don’t have time to babysit fragile egos or prove their worth to someone who's uncomfortable with their success.

The Bottom Line

VivaMax artists are professionals. They're storytellers. They're bold, confident, and unapologetically themselves. And like anyone else, they deserve to love and be loved without judgment.

If a man can’t look past the roles and see the woman behind the camera—the real person—then maybe he’s just not the leading man she needs.