
My Dreadlock Dilemma – Thick vs. Thin
- 🔥 THIN DREADS – 47 pieces at 12 inches
- 🔥 THICK DREADS – 23 pieces at 23 inches
New vlog alert! 🚨 This weekend took an unexpected turn when I found myself gatecrashing a staycation at Tivoli Garden Residences — and trust me, it was totally worth it! 😂
Located in Mandaluyong City, Tivoli Garden Residences is a hidden gem that offers a perfect blend of relaxation and fun. Nestled just minutes away from the heart of Metro Manila, this residential condominium boasts a resort-inspired vibe that makes it an ideal spot for a weekend escape.
From the moment I stepped in, I was greeted by lush greenery, serene outdoor spaces, and a laid-back atmosphere that felt like a breath of fresh air. The amenities are impressive — swimming pools, fitness gym, sky garden, and cozy lounging areas perfect for unwinding. Whether you're looking to chill by the pool, enjoy a morning jog, or simply sip coffee with a great view, Tivoli Garden Residences has something for everyone.
Our staycation was packed with fun — from spontaneous bonding moments with friends to indulging in delicious food. It’s amazing how a random invite turned into a memorable weekend filled with laughter and stories to cherish. Sometimes, the best adventures are the ones you don’t plan!
If you're searching for a budget-friendly staycation spot in Manila that offers comfort and convenience, I highly recommend checking out Tivoli Garden Residences. Whether you're staying overnight or just visiting a friend, it’s a fantastic spot to relax and recharge.
Watch my full experience in the embedded video below and see why this unexpected staycation was one for the books! Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more lifestyle adventures. ✨
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(From left to right) Me, John Daniel Castillo, Lauren Balanay & Jean at Griffon's Italian Restaurant. |
Yesterday, I had the chance to reunite with my college friend after eight years! We met at The Podium Ortigas, shared cocktails, pasta, coffee, and fries at Griffoni’s Italian Restaurant, and had some of the most meaningful conversations about life, career growth, and skillsets.
One of the biggest takeaways from our catch-up? The importance of saying no.
In a world that constantly demands our time and energy, learning to say no is not just about rejection—it’s a life skill. It helps set boundaries, protects our worth, and allows us to focus on what truly matters. And that’s something I wish I had learned earlier in life.
Yes, "saying no" is a skill, and like any other skill, it requires practice and confidence. Here’s why mastering this can significantly impact your personal and professional growth:
1. Self-Respect and Confidence Building
Saying no when necessary demonstrates that you value your time, energy, and priorities. It’s an act of self-respect. The more you say no to things that don’t align with your values, the more confident you become in making decisions that benefit your well-being.
2. Boundary Setting: Protecting Your Time and Energy
Not everything deserves your time and attention. By saying no, you establish clear boundaries that prevent overcommitment and burnout. You can’t pour from an empty cup, so protect your energy by prioritizing what truly matters.
3. Assertiveness: Expressing Yourself Clearly and Respectfully
Mastering the art of saying no involves assertive communication. It’s about expressing your needs without being aggressive or overly passive. The key is to be firm yet kind, showing respect for both yourself and the other person.
4. Saying No is Not Just a Word—It’s an Intentional Decision
Many people struggle with saying no because they fear disappointing others. But declining a request doesn’t mean being rude. It’s about making thoughtful decisions that align with your priorities. If needed, offer an alternative solution or a polite explanation without feeling guilty.
If saying no makes you feel uncomfortable, here are some ways to practice it effectively:
As we grow older, we realize that time is our most valuable resource. Saying yes to everything can leave us exhausted and unfulfilled. Learning when and how to say no allows us to invest in the things that truly matter—our passions, health, relationships, and personal growth.
Saying no isn’t just about rejecting requests; it’s about embracing a life that aligns with your values and priorities.
So, have you struggled with saying no? Let’s talk about it in the comments! And if you want to hear more personal stories and insights, check out my latest vlog on this topic.
The holiday season is full of unexpected surprises, and this time, I got three! 🎄✨
First, I’m unboxing a holiday hamper from the City of Mandaluyong—PAMASKO NI MAYOR! 🎁 It’s always heartwarming to receive something from the local government, and I truly appreciate this simple gesture.
Next, my work-from-home setup just got a major upgrade! 💻📦 My company sent a special UPS package to help me boost my productivity as a young professional in the call center industry. Working remotely has its challenges, but having the right tools definitely makes a difference.
And lastly—there’s someone new in my life! 🐶💖 A new furry companion is joining my simple life in Manila, making my home even cozier and filled with love. Want to meet my new buddy? Watch until the end and get ready for more updates next week!
🎥 WATCH THE VLOG:Once the frying was done, it was time for the real test: taste and texture. The oil-fried fish had its signature crunch and rich flavor, but the air-fried fish offered a surprising crispness with far less oil. Which one came out on top? Watch as I break down the pros and cons of each method and share my verdict. If you’re curious about stepping up your fish-frying game or just want to know which method might work best for you, this episode is a must-watch! 🎥🍴🐟
🎥 WATCH THE VLOG:The session wasn’t just about sweating it out—it was also about bonding, sharing laughs, and celebrating small victories along the way. Sol’s dedication to her fitness journey was truly inspiring, and it reminded me that starting is the hardest part. Whether I crushed the workouts or barely survived (you’ll have to watch to find out!), this day was a step in the right direction for a healthier lifestyle. If you’re looking for motivation or just a good laugh, this vlog has got it all. 🏋️♂️✨
🎥 WATCH THE VLOG:Living alone in Mandaluyong, the bustling heart of Metro Manila, has been a journey of self-discovery and resilience. I won’t sugarcoat it—#SoloLiving comes with its fair share of challenges. There are nights when the silence is deafening, chores that seem never-ending, and moments of doubt where loneliness creeps in. Sometimes, I find myself longing for the warmth of family or the comfort of a familiar face after a tough day. But through all of this, I’ve come to realize that solitude is not a curse—it’s a canvas. It has given me space to paint my life exactly the way I want it.
Having my own space has been both liberating and healing. For the first time, I can express myself without compromise—every corner of my small home tells a story. I’ve poured my heart into transforming this micro-living space into a haven that feels like an extension of my soul. There’s a quiet joy in rearranging furniture at midnight, trying new recipes in my minimalist kitchen, or simply curling up with a book as the city hums outside. The freedom to live life on my terms, no matter how big or small the decision, is empowering. It’s in these moments of peace and creativity that I truly thrive.
🎥 WATCH THE VLOG:Solo living has taught me to embrace independence and celebrate the victories—big and small. From mastering the art of budgeting to learning how to fix a leaky faucet, every challenge has become an opportunity to grow stronger. Yes, there are lonely days, but there are also moments of profound gratitude. Gratitude for the stillness, the self-discovery, and the resilience I’ve built along the way. Living alone in Mandaluyong is not just about surviving—it’s about thriving, finding joy in the journey, and becoming the best version of myself. This is my story, and I’m excited to share it with you. Let’s navigate this beautiful, chaotic city together. 🌱✨
The night was packed with activities that kept everyone on their feet. From thrilling raffle draws to a fiery dance battle, the atmosphere buzzed with excitement. A live band delivered a soulful performance, while an international DJ took the stage later, spinning beats that had the crowd dancing all night. I even joined the dance battle, where I showcased my moves under the glowing lights and proudly took home the second prize! It was a moment of pure joy and adrenaline, connecting with others through the rhythm of music.
🎥 WATCH THE VLOG:Beyond the entertainment, the Neon Blacklight Party was a testament to creativity and camaraderie. The Juan Umbrella Team orchestrated an event that brought people together to celebrate life, art, and music under a sea of glowing colors. From the vibrant decor to the incredible performances, every detail of the night added to its magic. It was truly an unforgettable experience, and I left with glowing memories that will light up my heart for years to come. 🌟
Recently, during my visit to SM Aura, I found myself surrounded by elements that beautifully echoed this year's celebrated shade. From rustic wooden interiors and artisanal displays to natural tones in design pieces, the subtle presence of Mocha Mousse was impossible to miss. These everyday visuals perfectly encapsulate the essence of Pantone’s vision: a comforting yet aspirational hue that bridges simplicity and luxury.
According to Leatrice Eiseman, Executive Director of the Pantone Color Institute, Mocha Mousse transforms how we view earthy tones. Traditionally grounded and modest, this shade has been elevated to evoke a sense of luxe without losing its approachable charm. Its versatility makes it ideal for everything from minimalist designs to intricate, detail-oriented aesthetics. This duality—simplicity paired with sophistication—reflects our evolving cultural desire for mindful indulgence in our daily lives.
Whether you're redesigning your living space, updating your wardrobe, or even curating an Instagram feed, Mocha Mousse offers a perfect foundation. The warm brown hue harmonizes beautifully with natural textures, muted greens, creamy whites, and even metallic accents, making it a flexible choice across creative industries.
The Pantone Color of the Year program has long been celebrated for its ability to capture the cultural zeitgeist in a single hue. Mocha Mousse encapsulates 2025's global yearning for comfort and connection, offering a sophisticated and lush palette that resonates with people of all walks of life. By highlighting a color that feels both grounded and aspirational, Pantone sets the tone for a year of mindful creativity and thoughtful indulgence.
Stay tuned for more content on how to incorporate Mocha Mousse into your lifestyle, and feel free to share your thoughts and ideas about this warm, inviting color as we embark on a new year of design possibilities. Let's celebrate the beauty of simplicity elevated to elegance!
What made this event extra special was the company of my amazing colleagues, who made sure the night was filled with laughter and unforgettable memories. From the moment I stepped into the venue, I knew I was ready to let loose. And let loose, I did! Once the music started booming and the alcohol kicked in, there was no stopping me. I found myself on the dance floor, wacking and voguing to the rave DJ’s beats. I even had spontaneous showdowns with some fabulous gays on the dance floor—an impromptu battle of moves that had everyone cheering and laughing. It felt like being back in my clubbing days, where dancing was my ultimate expression of freedom and joy.
Watching the videos that my colleagues captured that night brought me so much laughter and nostalgia. In those clips, you can see the pure happiness in my face as I danced like no one was watching. And to be honest, I didn’t care what anyone thought! My friend, Chiara, and I are kindred spirits when it comes to partying. When we’re tipsy, we just let go and have the time of our lives, oblivious to what others might say. Some people might think we looked silly or over-the-top, but for us, it was all about embracing the moment. Life has been too stressful over the years, and we’ve learned that it’s better to live for the memories and not worry about judgments.
Reflecting on that night, my biggest takeaway is simple: Life isn’t measured by how long we live but by how much happiness we create. Moments like these remind me why it’s so important to cherish every opportunity to celebrate, laugh, and enjoy life with the people around you. Whether it’s a grand event or a casual night out, make it count. And as I sit here, reacting to these funny, carefree videos, I can’t help but feel grateful for the joy that night brought into my life. Here’s to more laughter, dance battles, and memories worth reliving! 🎉